No matter what the ruin of any life may be there is always a place to start. There is a place where you must begin. You need to apologize to someone. You need to go to somebody and straighten something out. You need to stop some practice that is wrong. You need to open yourself up to counsel. You need to seek advice. You need to get some guidance. There is always a first step. That is where you must begin.
whatever you pray, pray that God will give you the grace, the strength and the
determination to take that step. Then, the process of recovery has begun.
-- Ray C. Stedman