Wednesday, July 2, 2025

A DIVINE INTERSECTION

“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Henceforth there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, will award to me on that Day, and not only to me but also to all who have loved His appearing.”  (2 Timothy 4:7-8 ESV)

Preparing for a death by creating meaningful rituals encourages emotional catharsis and spiritual release. And acknowledging family dynamics, in spite of the helpless and painful feelings, helps us move toward a resolution, however imperfect it may be.

We are fortunate when we have the time – the luxury, really – to say goodbye, particularly if it’s under the guidance of hospice workers, chaplains and pastors. These are the people who teach us that the end of life requires an awareness that transcends the confines of traditional medicine… Palliative care is based on this principle, in the tending to the physical, emotional, and spiritual needs of the dying, in the recognition of the mystery of life’s final cycle, and in the realization that there is a time to hold on and a time to let go. Coming to terms with these very basic tenets will better prepare us for the two roles that we must each adopt over the course of our lives – as the living with the dying and as the dying with the living. Though our scripts will differ, our need to understand them will not.

Death forces a grace period for us all. In a “divine intersection” the dying offer the living a final chance to be the best that they can be. We must take our cues from them, value the moments that lead up to and follow their departure, and work toward acceptance after they are gone. This is a vow as sacred as any we will make over the course of our lifetime. 

-- Adapted from “In Lieu of Flowers: A Conversation for the Living” by Nancy Cobb


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