“The Lord is near
to the brokenhearted.” “He heals the brokenhearted, and binds up their wounds.” (Psalm 34:18; 147:3)
Let me suggest to
you how we can deal with our woundedness and allow God to bind our wounds and
heal our broken hearts. God will mend a broken heart, if we will give Him all
the pieces.
Frist of all, we
need to accept the reality of our wounds. Because God is with us, we can be realistic about
our life. God empowers us to accept and face whatever it is that has wounded
our life. Real wounds do not go away because we ignore them or suppress them;
they only surface in more destructive and dangerous ways later.
Second, we lean on God’s
power and strength. One of the things Paul learned in his struggles with his thorn in the
flesh was that this wound and weakness made him rely more upon God. He said, “Whenever
I am weak, then I am strong.” (2 Corinthians 12:10)
Third, we can hold
on to hope. Hope is a
necessity for real living, but especially in a wounded [or broken] moment. As
Christians, we can have the hope and expectation that life will be good again.
It may not be the same, but it can be good again. Hope is belief in
possibility. It is not unrealistic optimism that everything will work out and
things will be like they were before. It is confidence and faith that however
things turnout, God will be with us, will see us through, and will bring
healing.
Fourth, we can get
in or stay in a healing community. The church is God’s healing community. We are not
created to be alone; we were made for community and family. The Bible speaks of
the power and strength of community, especially holy community. We give and
draw strength from one another.
Finally, we can
give ourselves to a cause greater than ourselves and become wounded healers. There comes a time, if we are to be
healed, that we turn our attention away from our wounds and focus on something
greater than ourselves. Many wounds do not heal because we continuously
irritate them by constant examination. If we want to be healed, it helps to
forget about ourselves and our wounds for a while and lose ourselves in
helping, serving, and caring for others.
-- Excerpted from “Lord, Give Me
Patience!... And Give It to Me Right Now!” by James W. Moore and Bob J. Moore
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