Isn't that good? Let God do the molding in your life! Let Him do the shaping and crafting and refining, and let Him do it from the inside out. Don't let others, no matter how sincere and helpful they may be, mold you from the outside in! After all, how do they know what sort of person (or personality) God wants within His family in a given place to accomplish His purposes?
-- Stephen Arterburn and Jack Felton in More Jesus, Less Religion